Thursday, 6 May 2010

Gambling


Gambling has become part of our lifestyle. We all take risks, and gambling is a kind of risk that's fun and exciting. Gambling makes you feel good, but it can be harmful. If you let it get out of control, it can take over your life. I so think that the urge to gamble can take over and become an addiction that can destroy the gambler and their family. It was researched by the G.A, that the group most vulnerable to developing a gambling problem is 16-24 year old males, with 4% of those who have gambled in the last year developing a gambling problem. The same age group for women also had the largest prevalence of all age groups at 1%. Gambling among young people is a real problem, yet there is still a great lack of education within schools and colleges regarding the impact of gambling. There is a great need for education within this area, especially as the gambling opportunities available for today's generation are continuously expanding. This is the worst thing ever, I had so had a gambling problem, not a serious problem, but, just when I go Drayton Manor and I see those money machines, to be fair I can stay the whole day there. But the idea of Gambling, for me is not a good thing, the money I have wasted so much money on the machines, I think they are worthless...All the machines do is make you think that you get money, but loose about 30- 40 pounds. I have found that gabling is worthless, just to the idea that money is wasted, and especially when you cannot stop, it becomes a mission to stop and then you spend more money.

so If you do want to gamble, do it but don't over do it please, it isn't worth it and it is costly..

I watch alot of this programe, it just shows how scams are done in the casino...love it...See another reason why you need to be careful at casinos it is really easy to get caught in things like this. JUST be careful..

Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Phnkp4R0iJI

response to keely Walker's abortion post!!



Ok lets face it abortion happens. The idea of going to get information on abortion is BAD. But personally killing a unborn child is just sad, I totally agree with you on the fact that people need to think of the shocking and painful thoughts that must go through those womens heads who make the harsh decision to have an abortion as I’m sure by most women it is not a decision taken lightly. But I do feel abortion is not really taken seriously, it just seen "oh i am pregnant, there is always abortion". I understand the fact if someone is raped, then you can go have an abortion, but I know to manny people who don't take abortion seriously, and that’s where it kills me to be honest, to go and have sex, but think about the precautions to them. But it is so true, the fact that it is more of a personal choice, and something the state can be involved in.....

Wednesday, 5 May 2010

Response to Sarah's plastic surgery post!



I have to agree with you on that Sarah. If an individual has got the money for plastic surgery, do they not have the right to spend on what they want. But I do find the more money you have, the more money is going to be spent on palstic sugery. I find that individuals come to the point, where they cannot stop where they start. The funny thing is because they are so insecure, they lead to have plastic surgery, where they themselves become plastic, and it looks funny. For instance Michael Jackson was HOT, before he had sugery, when surgery intrfered, he become ok, but then he killed it by changing himself totally. I would have agreed with nose thats fine, I dont mind, but when he changed looking like the scream mask, i just thought why..... Celebrities have surgery to the extent of them looking older, but I think it is really about their choice, not what I think lol..
I put up a link for you, it is really funny. It shows the extreme lengths people will go, to get surgery....

abortion and religion!!!!



The Catholic Church opposes abortion because it believes that life is sacred and inviolable. In 1995, Pope John Paul II wrote an encyclical letter called Evangelium Vitae (the Gospel of Life) in which he spoke of "the sacred value of human life from its very beginning.


Islam teaches that life begins at conception and is created by God. The unborn child has certain rights such as the right to care, protection and life. Abortion on any grounds is forbidden in the Islamic holy book Al'Quran. "Do not kill or take a human life which God has declared to be sacred." (Chapter 6,verse 151)


Generally, the Orthodox Churches forbid abortion as going against the commandment 'Thou shalt not kill'. The Russian Orthodox Church condemned abortion in its The Church and the Nation published in 2000.


ok so how do I feel about it, I think to be honest something I cannot agree with. Ok if I had a child, I could never kill it. Children for me is a no no, but if I did have one I would give him/her up for adoption. To be fair I understand where people who are young, may have to give it up. But I see it as children are our future, and if you go round aborting children, what are we going to be left with.

I have put up a link and it is about statistics on abortion...

http://www.statistics.gov.uk/cci/nscl.asp?ID=6249

Tuesday, 4 May 2010

Resposne to Hill, Samantha V's internet post....



Ok this one is a new one, that internet is a drug....I understand where your coming from, but I am sure people are not that addicted. But I see where your coming from when you say that people, do not get their exercise.

when you say that the internet is a research resource for most of us, there are others who use it for not so innocent reasons. I really never thought about it like that, especially for being able to find out how to make a bomb from household objects to stalking and child pornography to name but a few. You know what the way you explain, it is quite negative isn't it. I always thought spending time on the ineternet was a good thing, but the idea thatyou put across, it could be classed as a drug, and you know what were moving more and more to the direction of the internet.. And I think technology is making children a little more advanced, where as they should be enjoying the garden, park, and physical activity, which will lead them to becoming lazier....


I do think that the internet has its positve effects, meaning more open to the world, you can find what you need, when you need help. Also I do feel there is alot of resources for individuals, for instance you can find jobs and resources for children.

Nasty comedians


Freedom of speech, and also the laid back attitude on what people say on Television, has lead to problems for TV presenter Jonathan Ross and comic Russell Brand, who caused a riot after leaving obscene messages on the answer phone of elderly actor Andrew Sachs, who played Manuel in Fawlty Towers.

"Great comedy requires a nasty streak that pushes people out of their comfort zone," said the paper by scientists at the University of New Mexico.

The study asked those who took part to rate how much they agreed with various statements, such as "at times I have felt bitter and resentful", "poetry has little or no effect on me" and "I think it's interesting to develop new hobbies".

In February, Lee Hurst, who has appeared on the BBC's They Think It's All Over comedy quiz, was fined £60 after he smashed the mobile phone of a member of his audience because he thought the man was filming his act so he could sell the jokes to other performers.

"Thousands of professional comedians are trying to make a living and it's a tough job. They perform on stage three or four times a week, but other than that they are pretty much by themselves. They agree they have become more introverted. They have become more ruthless and are trying to push comedy to the edge."

Ricky Gervais, the writer, actor and stand-up of The Office fame, warned the rise of ruthless comedians would eventually alienate the audience.

The thing is with me I don’t mind, to be fair it has come to the point that there are no limits, to what you can and cannot say. The idea of comedians saying what they want to have positive effects, these are that taboos people are normally too embarrassed to even think, has become a normal way of everyday life. Nasty comedians use; I guess what we call “being bad” topics, like Swearing, drinking (thinking about Al Murray) and racism. But the idea of it all to me it is easier for them to joke about, so that we can talk about it seriously. Sometimes I have doubts on how far these comedians go, but as people are not too worried, you might is well enjoy, I LOVE Jimmy Carr, Omid Djalli and Steven Amos.

I put up a video of Chris Rock; this video is soo funny, he swears soo much and takes the piss, but it is WICKED... watching it is also sexist, omg but what can you do....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M902ZJHzaLE

Monday, 3 May 2010

Response to Salvation’s body modification post!!!

dont's ask me if they are horns, or what not....it is blooody wierd

As an indiviudal who would like to get pericing and also tatoos, I think yes, people who do have their body modified is becasue of adornment, and self expression. Actually I have never really thought about about the idea of overcoming fear and/or pain, because I always thought it is a form of art, it didn;t really hit me, that people may do it to gain some "guts". . A tatoo, ear piercings and other body modification is a way to improve oneself. I actually have someone who has my kind of thinking.People who modify themselves, may do it just like people who get plastic surgery or having their hair cut, it may also help them feel more confident about themselves. Soemthing I learnt though is that individual's get themselves modified is for spiritual reasons, I had no idea reallly, that is well lucky man... But there is one disagreement, I feel as though some people take advantage, just like plastic surgery to be fair. I think when someone has the right to body modification, they want more and more then it leads to something wierd like the picture above, what would you think if you seen a person like the one above.....I'll be well scared, but now I think it is becoming normal.

I put up a link to show wierdness of how serious it can go, and yes it is a littllle errrr

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkRm219ojO8&feature=related

Sunday, 2 May 2010

Response to Hannah-Louise’s violent video games


Yes that is one thing I believe, that playing games does not encourage killing, but aggravates an individual to fight or show aggression. I have so seen underage children getting hold of these over 18 games. To be fair they are so advanced, thinking about my days as a teen I was a lost bucket, looking at what children play now woow. Me myself play games but find some games really disgusting, you have like sex, swearing and also lying, all being bad topics. I think that there should be limits with these games, thinking about it pacman and space invaders best game ever. Don’t see why children can’t play games like that. I find it funny how famous some of these games are, the more swearing, murdering and missions to kill, the more you have to have it. I find these games useless, but when it comes to chilling i guess you can call it fun....

just watching this, the first thing you see it the mission to steal.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YH9-zoeQRH0

pornography...



Everyone knows that child pornography is bad because it's been demonstrated over and over that people who look at that stuff end up acting it out—and really destroy people's lives. That's beyond the unconscionably cruel exploitation of the children involved.

Other forms of pornography are harmful for a similarly oft-repeated reason: Pornography makes women into objects of desire rather than real people. We want to have relationships between person and person, not person-to-object.

But there's something much deeper than that in pornography, something that gets at the very core of being a man. A real man is someone who maintains control over himself. Animals can't do that—they just respond to their instincts. People are free in the sense that they can decide what is the right and proper thing to do.

But when someone is looking at pornography, he is actively undermining that "inner strength" of his, allowing himself to slip into being an animal. The eyes see, the hormones are triggered and the mind is washed away in a sea of biological cruelty. A grown human being becomes a slave of one tiny organ of his body. In his relationship with women, as well, he becomes enslaved in his passion for them—and a certain for them to manipulate. How evil do i sound it may not be true, but muahahahahahaha sounds evil!!!!

I have found this video showing that abuse is WRONG,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHtmfjKGaqc

Saturday, 1 May 2010

response to Rattu, Nisha's to steal or not to steal post!!


I so think what you say works to be fair. I think as they say once you start stealing it may be hard to stop. Coming to the realisation that you can get whatever you want, within considerable reason, for free, is obviously a better option. But I don’t understand why you would want to steal. Ok bread, milk fine, but when it comes to peer pressure and you do it for fun then I so think it is cheap.
I think it's fair to say that most people have probably committed some sort of theft, whether it is once or multiple times. I think I have never committed any kind of theft; just the thought makes me think err cheap.

This following website has some information on children stealing, and on how you can deal with it. It is quite interesting to read.

http://kidshealth.org/parent/emotions/behavior/shoplifting.html


Religion and tatoos!!!



Throughout my blog I have commented on my ideas, on being bad subject. But I haven't really spoken about religion. Ok so I'm guessing you have heard that tattoos are a sin in Islam, which holds that believers shouldn't deface their bodies. But because of all the car bombings, and kidnappings. Iraqi's are now getting tattoos. But these are not like the tattoos we are used to seeing. They are getting tattoos of their name, neighbourhood, and telephone number as identification in case he or she is killed in a car bombing or kidnapping and then their body being dumped in the street. Who would ever think that tattoos would ever be used in this manner? That is just sad, and so unbelievable.

It has been researched that Several pro-tattoo historians indicate the connection with scarification and blood-letting associated with religious practices. Another source indicates “the importance of licking the blood that was released during tattoo operations” (Steve Gilbert, “Tattoo History: A Source Book”, pg.181). Christians also belive that tatoos are a sin, it has been seen by some christians as a demonic.

As a Muslim I find it difficult, because I really want one, because I see it as a form of art, I don't seee the harm in it really.

I do know some religions accept tatoos, and the idea of having a symbol tatoo is compulsory, but only in a few countries, like Europe.

I found this website and tells you the religious teachings on tatoos, it is quite interesting, it tells you other reasons for getting tatoos...


http://www.raptureready.com/featured/schaefer/tattoo.html


Friday, 30 April 2010

Response to Rob Ball's idea for week 12!!



Yes sure, I think your idea might work for the week 12 trip...when I read your post, I had to rub my eyes, but this sure made me laugh. yes spiked drinks, explicit drinks and mass infidelity, what more would you need for a good night out. Ha ok I think that there was a little sarcasm in there, but I’m sure if there was all this it may have been one LONG night... Yes Aruge, spiking is illegal, so I guess we all have to be careful not to get caught...

Smoking, Smoking, Smoking!!


Smoking something that’s talked about everywhere!!!!! Smoking smoking smoking....what can I say??? well what haven't we been told about smoking...Smoking is portrayed as "Bad" but that’s what the media, newspapers and movies want us to think...I personally think it is not really "Bad", but more of a choice. Yes there are Health issues which can be identified, but again is that not the choice for individual to decide.... personally I think smoking is "Bad" if done 24/7 and done around others, I think that is just selfish......but if done in a quite area yes fair enough....Smoking smoking smoking.....hmmm well people go smoke if you want to just remember Cigarettes contain more than 4000 chemical compounds and 400 toxic chemicals.
A cigarette burns at 700°C at the tip and around 60°C in the core. This heat breaks down the tobacco to produce various toxins. As a cigarette burns, the residues are concentrated towards the butt. The products that are most damaging are:
Tar, a carcinogen (substance that causes cancer)
Nicotine is addictive and increases cholesterol levels in your body
carbon monoxide reduces oxygen in the body
components of the gas and particulate phases cause
chronic obstructive pulmonary disorder (COPD).

I find this movie really interesting, I really do not know what to think to be honest:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HC3xwlfcFM

Thursday, 29 April 2010

Kids!!!





Kids was an amazing movie. It portrayed real life crises that many do not like to even talk about. If you open your eyes, that movie in reality is what goes around every day, everywhere. Kids showed the harsh reality of life, living with a disease that you do not even know you have, and if you have one also, this movie makes you feel a little more comfortable. I do think that this Film could have been "cleaner", but the message behind it wasn’t a simple subject to talk about really. Yes so I am a little confused on what to think about this film...


I thought as this is a subject which is a little hard to comment on, I have some inforamtion which can relate to the disease....


http://www.whittallstreet.nhs.uk/sexually-transmitted-diseases/hiv?gclid=CKCgjMqj3qACFQc9lAodki5kFA


I have got a YouTube video..Where an individual who has once had the disease, which you can then relate it to the film....Is it how the individual felt in the movie, is the film realistic, do they focus on all aspects...


http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EDFiAfJC848

Wednesday, 28 April 2010

Coming back to the names for Mas!!!!!!!!!

shhhh...you haven't heard anything from me!!!!

Reading the following names, is it not something you want to go hahahahahahaha......yes I said it....

climb the greasy pole
climb the tree

beat the dummy
beat the meat
beat the stick

butter the corn
cane the vandal
charm the snake

You know what thinking about it; you could say it is a funny subject to talk about, because the media portray it as funny. Alot of films and news papers advertise the funny side but not really the serious side. Shameless, American Pie and there's something About Mary all show the funny side, but there is no film which is serious about it.

I found that there are some songs on this subject I don't really want to mention but there you go...I know I do feel a little shy but it is funny at the same time... What do you lot think is it something embarrassing to talk about after hearing these names.... I would;t blame you if you said YES...

The website is...

http://http://www.cracked.com/article_15114_15-best-songs-that-are-totally-about-masturbation.html


Tuesday, 27 April 2010

Infidelity part 2!!



In our lesson on infidelity, I found it a subject quite serious. If I Ever found my partner cheating, I would leave my partner as soon as possible, but is he told me he wants another mistress I would not be bothred, as long as he has the trust in telling me. Infidelity is a commonly thought of as a breach of faith, and can occur in a number of contexts (e.g., in religious contexts). Also called cheating, it is considered as 'any violation of the equally agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship'. What make ups an act of infidelity varies between and within cultures. It does not necessarily depend on the presence of sexual behaviour.


Even within a close relationship, people might have very different ideas and perceptions of infidelity.


Infidelity could be the following, Sleeping around with more than one person, Being in simultaneous casual relationships, Being in a relationship and having an affair, having a one night stand with someone else, Flirting with other people. You could say Having a virtual (online) relationship with another, Lusting after other people Dreaming of having sex with other people, Watching porn and Masturbating.


This may sound wrong but sometimes, I do think some of the above are ok if you and your partner agree to it. I do think if it hurts your partner then I think it is WRONG. If you are lying and being decietful then yes it is wrong... If you have the guts to say "partner I want three partners" then I think that is fine, if you can't then you have trust issues, or you just know it is damn wrong.

The video below shows some celebrities who have been In the news, I'm a little into gossip, uh oh another infidelity lol......I guess it just shows me that even though celebrities have what they want, they are still "normal" just like the rest of us...

http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivOGDsTwMT0

Infedelity!!

I have been researching on Infedelity and I found that, you could class bigamists as an infedel. But then again my views come into practice really lol... This is because a Bigamist tells their partner that they would like to live their life with many partners...so really I do think it is accpted if the partner knows.....

I found some information on bigamists which is the unlawful act of having two or more wives or husbands at the same time, usually with the second not knowing about the first. Polygamy is the practice of having multiple wives based on religious beliefs, with all wives aware of, and agreeable to, the husband having several wives. The wives of polygamists refer to each other as "sister wives".

I have found a news report on a bigamist, This is wired but I guess the family accepted it...

http://http//www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2009/06/28/bigamist-bride-emily-horne-speaks-about-her-five-husbands-115875-21476447

Monday, 26 April 2010

TATOOS



The picture above shows a tatoo Chery Cole has, which I want.......But if I get this I would have to cover it when at work.....awwww

I am so with this all the way. Something I so want at the moment!! When people say tatoos are "bad" I really don't think it is...I see it as a form of Art. I do know that some religions do not allow it, but that is not reallly in this disscussion, but maybe later. I see it as if people want it, who are we to stop it. I always find in Movies that people who have tatoos relate to the devil or relates to "evil.". And that is so not true.....In my opinion I find it is what society make of these "Being Bad". If you think about it even work places have stopped tatoos why???....What do you lot think should it have been a subject that needs to be hidden....

I found this movie and when you watch this movie you would see alot of a 666 tatoo, and yes it doesn't give a possitive message really on tatoos. It gives you more of a devill feeling when getting a tatoo.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_8TOMx4S9UU&feature=related

Sunday, 25 April 2010

Response to Mumtaz Janghir's Marijuana's healthier than botox post...


phew like the title is not hard enough to say.... well that is shocking considering I wouldn't Mind getting botox, but if your telling me you get brain damage forget that. I find that people may get botox due to having the money in hand to do it, or maybe just to make themselves feel confident, but if your telling me marijuana's more healthier why not get high, then enjoy it for the five minutes it gives us, that is a little funny though....Brain damage or getting high for a few minutes, yes i think i'll pick the marijuana...well lets see what the future holds for me...u never know i probably end up getting high, You never know i probably get botox, because I got high, because i got high, because I got high...lol

I put up this link, it is such a good song to listen to it's so chilling, it is about a guy who smokes Marijuana, and it makes you want to smoke lol!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFWjwN95_oU

Response to Ameena Calee's Plastic surgery post!


I So think you are right I do find That people want to look different, even though you should keep the look God has given you. But I do believe that there are reasons to be honest that should be acknowledged for plastic surgery, for instance celebrities, media and peer pressure. Sometimes I do think to get a better Job you do need to look I guess perfect. I do feel at the moment money is the biggest issue right, when money in hand anything can happen, it is just the fact greed comes into mind. But one thing I noticed when people do get plastic surgery, they feel more confident and have high self esteem. Which in that case it is more worthwhile to get, if it helps.......

Just hope people don't come to that point and look like Barry Manlow....hahahahaha

there is a video link I put on, you probably find this a little funny.......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8uUFInTUXE

SHOP LIFTING!!



OMG one thing I do not agree with totally...I think shoplifting is one thing I cannot tolerate...I do understand that people may need to steal if their basic needs are not met. I find that shoplifting now is more because of pressure and for fun. I do not think that many people steal because they cannot afford it, but it is more to look good in front of their friends, personally this to me seems cheap and makes the individual look like a gangster, and I think that is what they want.

I have actually seen a few shoplifters but they were doing it because it was funny, but the weird thing is they actually had money on them.....I do sometimes feel that people have to shop lift, but no no no not when they find it funny. Sometimes I think if you shop lift from shops which do not seem pricey, it is a little cheap. But if you shoplift from ASDA for bread that I understand.

I have found a website which shows some statistics, it is boring but then again it is quite funny.....


http://blog.al.com/spotnews/2009/06/fbi_report_shows_violent_crime.html

Friday, 23 April 2010

Response to Rick's trip for week twelve





Hello...Bruges that’s somewhere different...I wouldn't mind that. Sounds like you’re a person of Art...Not sure where Bruges is but what else is it known for... I found some websites for London Art galleries, and thought you could have a look if you would want to go there.... So what is Bruges also known for, I am really interested in Art well started too anyways...What other hobbies do you have, and no I am not a stalker lol..


The link shows some Art galleries in London, I hope you enjoy....


http://www.nationalgallery.org.uk/


Stalking!!!



I have to say the first thing that came into my mind was the film "There's something about Mary"......yes I watch alot of movies I admit to it......but Stalking is something that scares me, maybe because I have been stalked it gets really scaryyy......When I was at school I was followed from school to the bus stop and it was a 20 miniute walk, it was bloody horrible... So I am totally against it.....when someone is stalked it involves lying and deceit. When it comes to a point where the individual knows where you live, oh no man this is way out of order....I find stalking is hurting someone emotionally, you could say it is bullying someone. Sometimes Stalking could lead to blackmail and forcing someone to do something, as they may have information on you. I think stalking is when an individual wants to get to know you, or if an individual wants to speak to you and doesn't know if there is any other way of doing it, but there is trust me...

The following website shows the serious level stalking can lead to, this is soo scaryyyy, so you can see why I am against stalking:


http://crime.about.com/od/stalking/a/stalking_facts.htm

Thursday, 22 April 2010

Response to Riassa's Lets go to the cinemas



Hiya riaassa, my name is Ayesha and I personally think that there is involvement of parents; I think nowadays parents are more concerned, I also do think that there is guidance for the kinds of things shown (sex and HIV). I do agreee that there is lack of guidance don't get me wrong, but the thing is I think now there is a little change....
ps...Please blog back lol..... I do feel that this movie is a wakeup call for parents, but not all parents are the same. I think that the new generation of parents are more aware of this kind of thing.


I put up a website where it tells you about the involvement of parents in America, so with this kind of help...I do feel times have changed

http://www.heritage.org/Research/Reports/2004/01/What-Do-Parents-Want-Taught-in-Sex-Education-Programs

Response to Jay's Liar Liar




Hiya...When I First read this I thought I had to comment. I find it difficult to answer that question....."Is it Good to lie"? you could say I have the Same Mentality which is lie to avoid hurting the ones you love....but how much could you lie to the ones you love...reading your blog I worry a little, imagine you come to a point where one lie will lead to many...I like your way of thinking....but if I were someone you loved hmmmm...It would get me thinking....



Hey I thought you had a picture of Jim Carrey, so I thought I post the video...


http://www.jimcarreyonline.com/videoclips/clips.html?m=liarliar

Bullemia





People with bulimia tend to alternate between eating excessive amounts of food (bingeing), and making themselves sick, or using laxatives (purging), in order to maintain a chosen weight. This is usually done in secret. People with bulimia purge themselves because they feel guilty about the binge eating, but the bingeing is a compulsive act that they feel they cannot control. Bulimia can affect both men and women but, statistically, women are 10 times more likely to develop bulimia than men. However, bulimia is becoming more common in boys and men. Recent studies suggest that around eight in every 100 women will have bulimia at some point in their lives. The condition can occur at any age but it often starts around the age of 19. Bulimia can affect children, but this is extremely rare. From this I find that girls may be bulimic because of peer pressure, and also the fact that girls have the mentality that " If I look thin I will get a better job" but this is not always the case I know people who have a little weight do get jobs. Nowadays there are over 16 sized models and this will improve. I think there is help for people who are bulimic, but I think the only thing that needs to change is attittudes. When people do this it is quite hard to see, I find it so hard when I see people be sick, I say enjoy food, if you do want loose weight always do it the safer way, the more sufficient way....


I have found this website and it is a chubby women who is a proffesional model, so it just shows that you do not have to be thin to be priviledged.

Wednesday, 21 April 2010

What the PHO!!!


Having a face like this when swearing, then it is wrong....

Swearing what do I think....Swearing is something I actually think is someone who is "Being bad", but I still do it. I think swearing should be contolled at an earlly age. As an individual who swears I find this so hard to controll. I have noticed that because I am so "used" to swearing at school I find it hard to control. Swearing for me is like "bitch" and "shit", but I try controlling with words that do not sound very nice like "f!?#", I try to controll by using other words like "fish and chips", sounds funny but helps me control my swearing. I find when people think "Omg she is swearing, it's disgusting", I do understand where they are coming from but the thing is when you grow up around swearing it is difficult to control, I don't do it because I want to be bad. I think swearing is bad if you say it because you have the intentions of hurting someone. Again it is the intentions you have with swearing. I also find alot of games for children use this language, and I have notice alot of children play games nowadays....

The following link shows a game, with so "swearing", sounds nice doesn't it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDyfdT7bd2s

Tuesday, 20 April 2010

Child Abuse!!



From NSPCC research it shows that a significant minority of children suffer serious abuse or neglect. Their 2000 study of the childhood experiences of 2,869 18-24 year olds found that:
Six per cent of children experienced frequent and severe emotional maltreatment during childhood.
Six per cent of children experienced serious absence of care at home during childhood.
31 per cent of children experienced bullying by their peers during childhood, a further seven per cent were discriminated against and 14 per cent were made to feel different or 'like an outsider'. 43 per cent experienced at least one of these things during childhood.
72 per cent of sexually abused children did not tell anyone about the abuse at the time. 27 per cent told someone later. Around 31 per cent still had not told anyone about their experience(s) by early adulthood. 25 per cent of children experienced one or more forms of physical violence during childhood. This includes being hit with an implement, being hit with a fist or kicked, shaken, thrown or knocked down, beaten up, choked, burned or scalded on purpose, or threatened with a knife or gun. Of this 25 per cent of children, the majority had experienced 'some degree of physical abuse' by parents or carers.
Almost two thirds of children killed at the hands of another person in England and Wales are aged under five.

If you would like any more information click the following link:

http://www.nspcc.org.uk/WhatWeDo/AboutTheNSPCC/KeyFactsAndFigures/KeyFacts_wda33645.html



To conclude, I find this such a BAD subject, do not care what degree it is begining or end, this is the worst kind of a "being bad" subject. This kind of topic I can not even talk about without difficulty.


The Thing is with Child abuse, you are hurting children at the age of what they do not understand, these kids are supposed to be the future, harming them this will not be achieved. Almost two thirds of children killed in another persons hands were under 5. This is disgusting and inappropriate, why would someone have the mind set to do this. I am not even sorry to say that I am totally against child abuse.


This video has shown a summary of how a child feels and also what child abuse can lead too...


http://www.metacafe.com/watch/60058/child_abuse/

Monday, 19 April 2010

I think I can smell something!!! Is it weed?



Ok I just got around smoking, drugs not at the moment. I want to know the hoo haa aboout drugs, I don't really see it as anything to bee honest. I really think people do it, as a phsychological thing, but now I think it is more just for fun and a way to chill.. Drugs I am talking about are cocaine, weed, Ecstasy, LSD, heroin, cocaine, and magic mushrooms. I don't see the big deal, but there must be something in there. I feel maybe people do it to stress free themselves, or gangsters who want to make some money, as they may have it rock bottom. Sometimes people may see illegal drugs as something that has been banned, so they may just have the adrenaline rush to break rules.

There is a scene in a movie which got me scared, it was Kids 1995, which shows kids having drugs this was scary it's illegal but they can still get their hands on it at that age, soon it becomes a habit, which cannot be kicked. But the thing with rules you cannot strengthen them because the young will still be able to find a way to get them...


So I find that there is no way to get rid of them, or to keep them. I think illegal drugs are here to stay whether I like it or not, and people will always get their hands on them. But I just worry people don't overdo it though; I know it's there life and that, but it is just that fear of people dying of drugs. It is hard to take in...


Ok the Link is:

http://www.metacafe.com/tags/kids_1995/